Observing Communication

This week I had the opportunity to observe an adult and young children communicating. I did so in a kindergarten classroom. Observations are a great way to enhance what you understand and know about mindful communication. Knowing which communication strategies work best also strengthens your communication skills. As I watch and observe the teacher and students, I focused on how effective her communication skills were with the students.  As she responding to each child I noticed that she always called them by name. She was also very encouraging, praising them for a job well done on class work. She encouraged all students regardless of their ability level. Teacher talk is encouraging and lets children know that their teacher values their efforts and accomplishments (The Nature of Teacher Talk during Small Group Activities, 2010).

During circle time when students were working on their sight words, I noticed how she took the time to correct their grammar and words. Her interactions were so engaging the children remain focused and eager to learn. Activities incorporated in the curriculum were all explained in detail, and students were allowed to ask questions if necessary. It was obvious that each child has their own style of communicating, but she was able to incorporate different strategies that seem to work in her environment and listen to what they had to say.

Becoming an effective communicator will take much time an effort. Our choice of words is important (The Nature of Teacher Talk during Small Group Activities, 2010). Regardless of the students different styles of communication there are several strategies that foster effective communication. If done correctly, children’s social, emotional, and cognitive development are enhanced and is the foundation for learning and healthy development.

This week I have learned the importance of stepping back and listening to what children have to say. As educators, we must continually ask ourselves how we can use language for our ultimate purpose: to support children's development and learning The Nature of Teacher Talk during Small Group Activities, 2010).  Alison Stephenson says “Listening is paramount” (Stephenson, 2009). “Stepping back became a strategy that helped me listen with an openness that allowed me to hear unexpected meanings in what children shared with me” (Stephenson, 2009).

References:

The Nature of Teacher Talk during Small Group Activities. (2010). YC: Young Children, 65(1), 74-81.

Stephenson, A. (2009). Conversations with a 2-Year-Old. YC: Young Children, 64(2), 90-95.