This week I had the
opportunity to observe an adult and young children communicating. I did so in a
kindergarten classroom. Observations are a great way to enhance what you
understand and know about mindful communication. Knowing which communication strategies
work best also strengthens your communication skills. As I watch and observe
the teacher and students, I focused on how effective her communication skills
were with the students. As she
responding to each child I noticed that she always called them by name. She was
also very encouraging, praising them for a job well done on class work. She
encouraged all students regardless of their ability level. Teacher talk is
encouraging and lets children know that their teacher values their efforts and accomplishments
(The Nature of Teacher Talk during Small Group Activities, 2010).
During circle time when
students were working on their sight words, I noticed how she took the time to
correct their grammar and words. Her interactions were so engaging the children
remain focused and eager to learn. Activities incorporated in the curriculum
were all explained in detail, and students were allowed to ask questions if necessary.
It was obvious that each child has their own style of communicating, but she
was able to incorporate different strategies that seem to work in her environment
and listen to what they had to say.
Becoming an effective
communicator will take much time an effort. Our choice of words is important (The
Nature of Teacher Talk during Small Group Activities, 2010). Regardless of the
students different styles of communication there are several strategies that foster
effective communication. If done correctly, children’s social, emotional, and cognitive
development are enhanced and is the foundation for learning and healthy
development.
This week I have learned
the importance of stepping back and listening to what children have to say. As
educators, we must continually ask ourselves how we can use language for our
ultimate purpose: to support children's development and learning The Nature of
Teacher Talk during Small Group Activities, 2010). Alison Stephenson says “Listening is paramount” (Stephenson,
2009). “Stepping back became a strategy that helped me listen with an openness that
allowed me to hear unexpected meanings in what children shared with me” (Stephenson,
2009).
References:
The Nature of Teacher
Talk during Small Group Activities. (2010). YC: Young Children, 65(1), 74-81.
Stephenson, A. (2009).
Conversations with a 2-Year-Old. YC: Young Children, 64(2), 90-95.