This week we are discussing micro aggressions. One experience with a micro aggression that I
can remember that happened to me was really not directed at me but because my
daughter can’t hear I was asked the question. We were at a church event and I
was having a conversation with another church member about my daughter. As I
mentioned before she is deaf but she is a dancer and people often wonder how is
she able to dance to music she can’t hear. After explaining to them how she is
able to dance and is not able to hear, I was asked if she could read. Although
I know no harm was intended I immediately assumed that they felt all deaf
people could not read. I felt angry and she was also angry because she knew
what he had ask because she can read lips. My response to him was yes she can read she goes to school and is making good grades. She just can't hear.
My observation experiences this week helped me better
understand the affects discrimination, prejudice, and/or stereotypes can have
on people. The constant use of micro aggressions can cause psychological damage
too those who are most venerable. We may not intentionally mean to cause harm
but the harm cause can be devastating especially for young children. Although I
try to pay close attention to what I say to others, this week helped me
understand why it’s important. Because I have been affected by the use of micro
aggressions and know how it makes me feel, it is important to me that I do not
impose that type of behavior upon another individual.